Finally

The  Votes Are In...

Here are the most recent results so far! How long will this last? Till October 2020. New things to vote on pop up on the 15th of every month. Want to hear how it's playing out so far for Jen? Find the stories in the book here.

Question: As of now, how do you feel about going to a wedding in 2020?

Result: 52.9 of people said as they aren’t ready to go to a wedding yet

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Question: How do you feel about a wedding where guests come in waves? Ex. 20 people are invited to come celebrate from 2pm-4pm, a different 20 people are invited to come from 4pm-6pm, etc.

Result: 61.5% of people said they are not into this idea

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Question: Should Jen do a solo bachelorette or wait until it’s safe to do a bachelorette party with friends?

Result: 79.3% of people said no and wait to do it with friends

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Question: If your friends eloped, would you still consider sending a wedding gift?

Result: 74.3% of people said yes 

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Question: Do you think we should even tell the people who were invited to our canceled wedding they aren’t invited to our new 2021 wedding when we plan it or just not say anything?

Result: 58.1% said no let it go

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Question: If we do plan a 2021 wedding and livestream parts of it, should I open it up so ANYONE in the world can have access to watch it?

Result: 56.6% said it’s a bad idea

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Question: Should I wear a wedding veil?

Result: 54.1% of people said yes 

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Question: If you were given a plus one to a wedding, would you bring someone no matter what - even if you weren’t dating anyone?

Result: No

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Question: Would you be okay getting JUST emailed invites to a wedding - nothing in the mail?

Result: 62.7% said yes 

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Question: Should we do our first dance during the ceremony before the vows?

Result: 84.6% said no

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Question: How long should each person give a speech for?

Result: 57.3% of people said less than 5 minutes 

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Question: Can we skip a cocktail hour all together?

Result: 47.8% of people said yes

Question: Should we have an engagement party?

Result: 73% of voters said SKIP IT

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Question: Should we do engagement photos?

Result: 82% of people said YES! WHY NOT?

Question: Should we invite people to the wedding who invited me to theirs (years ago) but we hardly speak now?

Result: 91% of people said NO

Question: How much do you spend on a wedding gift?

Result: 61% of people said under $100

Question: Do you ever take home party favors?

Result: 54% of people said YES

Question: Do you get upset when a friend doesn't Invite you to their wedding?

Result: 59% of people said NO

Question: Should I have a bridal shower?

Result: 63% of people aid YES! I LOVE THEM

Question: Do you care about fancy food?

Result: 91% of people said NO! JUST GOOD TASTY FOOD

Question: What wedding tradition should Jen keep?

Results: 71% said walking down the aisle 

Question: What's the best engagement celebration?

Result: 80% of people said take an "engagement-moon" vacation 

Question: How much should Jen spend on her wedding?

Result: 68% of people voted $15,000-30,000

Question: Was your wedding the best day or most stressful day of your life?

Result: 75% said BEST DAY!

Question: Would you be OK if a wedding didn't have an open bar?

Result: 83% of people said NO. UGH, I NEED THAT OPEN BAR 

Question: Is writing a post-engagement letter to an ex 's a good idea?

Result: 95% of people said UMMMM NO!

Question: Elope or throw a giant wedding?

Result: 86% of people said THROW THE WEDDING! YOU WON'T REGRET IT 

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Question: Real Flowers?

Result: 93% of people said YES, REAL FLOWERS

Question: Should we assign seats?

Result: 54% of people said YES!

Question: Do you think this project is odd?

Result: 87% of people said NO! TOTALLY COOL

Question: Do you care about a photo booth?

Result: 52% of people said NO, SKIP IT

Question: Do we have to do paper invites?

Result: 64% of people said YES, MAIL THEM OUT

Question: Biggest wedding challenge for Jen?

Result: 61% of people said Invite all the people she's been a bridesmaid for in the past and get them to come to the wedding wearing the bridesmaid dress they made her wear

Question: How many gifts do you buy the couple getting married?

Result: 72% of people said WEDDING AND BRIDAL SHOWER GIFT 

Question: Band or DJ?

Result: 79% of people said GET A BADASS DJ

Question: What kind of dessert?

Result: 74% of people said ICE CREAM SUNDAE BAR

Question: Do we need a cocktail hour?

Result: 86% of people said YES! After the ceremony

Question: How much should Jen spend on her wedding dress?

Result: 68% of people said under $1500

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Question: Should the couple go on a honeymoon?

Result: 91% of people said YES 

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Question: Should we have a theme to our wedding?

Result: 51% of people said YES! AMAZING RACE THEME

Question: What time of the day should the wedding be?

Result: 74% of people said LATE AFTERNOON

Question: How many bridesmaids is too many? 

Result: 73% of people said MORE THAN 5 

Question: Should you tell your fiance your deepest darkest secrets before the wedding?

Result: 63% of people said NO, IT'S OKAY TO KEEP SOME TO YOURSELF

Question: What's the best pre-wedding relationship test we should do?

Result: 86% of people said Combine finances and set budgets and goals (how romantic..J/K but necessary and scary to do)

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Question: Should Jen hire bridesmaids?

Results: 65% of people said NO!

Question: Should Jen have bridesmaids? 

Results: 87% said YES BUT NO MATCHING DRESSES